Personal Growth

Finding My xNFP MBTI Fit and Why Teaching Is Home

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2025
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Finding My xNFP MBTI Fit and Why Teaching Is Home

Key insight

"That messy xNFP mix makes perfect sense once I'm back in the classroom."

"Insights from real conversations and real problems"

On a two-hour train ride from home to the company, Tea tried an MBTI test. Result: xNFP – hard to fit into a neat box but answered many questions about herself.

  • x (Introvert and Extrovert): sometimes needing alone time to recharge, sometimes craving people to talk to.
  • N (Intuition): loves asking "big picture" questions, rarely enjoys scrutinizing details.
  • F (Feeling): decisions mostly driven by emotion. Motivated when interested, difficult when not.
  • P (Perceiving): hates fixed schedules, prefers flexibility as long as results are achieved.

"Reading this feel like a 21st century nightmare? Tea finds Tea exhausting too!"

Why Teaching Became Tea's "Home"

  • Teaching allows intuition to work: observing the class, adjusting activities on the spot.
  • Emotion becomes an advantage: Tea connects with students through authenticity.
  • Flexible schedule: class doesn't need to be formulaic – as long as students progress.

A Slice of Everyday Life

Tea leans introvert: small talk at parties drains Tea, but teaching a well-prepared class actually adds energy. Strong intuition helps Tea see the future students are heading toward and inspire them to find their path. Thanks to Feeling, Tea remembers clearly the "uncomfortable" feeling of beginners, from learning English to practicing accordion. This helps Tea guess where students are stuck and adjust immediately.

The "P" (flexible) part is an asset in teaching: lesson plan prepared meticulously but when the class needs something different, Tea can pivot 180° in seconds. That's also why Tea hates rigid schedules but can manage multi-level classes—flexible as long as it serves student goals.

What About You?

MBTI isn't a magic formula, but note:

  • Every personality has strengths if placed correctly.
  • Teaching (or any profession) requires understanding yourself to choose suitable approaches.

After taking the MBTI test, Tea understood that "professional passion" answers why she still teaches on weekends despite working full-time: because this is where xNFP personality is used correctly.

What do you think?

This article might've started as a scribble on the back of a receipt during a bus ride, a spark of something real after a conversation over a pint of Leffe, or notes from a Sunday afternoon client call that left me buzzing with ideas. However it came to be, I hope it found you at just the right moment.

If it stirred something in you, or if you're just curious about anything from automating the boring bits of your business to capturing your quiet magic in a coffee shop shoot — shall we pencil something into the diary?

I'd love to be on the other end of the conversation.

Thi Nguyen offers a wide range of marketing, automation consultancy for small, medium enterprises. Email: [email protected]. She's currently based in London, UK.
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